Finding the Common Denominator


I recently read a post from a woman living in Florida who is looking to move somewhere else.  Specifically, somewhere she could find “normal men”.  LMAO!  What does that even mean?  “Normal”!  That’s all relative in my humble opinion.  

I’ve had a few close individuals whose definition of normal is really out there.  I think to myself, not in judgement (just a thought), WTF were they thinking?!?!  LOL…Again, just a thought…no judgement!

Anyhow, back to the woman who posted about “normal men”.  She goes on to say that she has lived in several other states without finding any happiness or fulfillment.  As I scrolled through hundreds of comments suggesting places to move, things to do, weather perks, etc. not one person caught on or at least mentioned the obvious.  Or at least what was obvious to me.  That is that she is the common denominator in the equation of not finding happiness/normal men/fulfillment/success. 

I’m absolutely sure that there are many women and men that have found normal partners and happiness in all those states that she had previously lived.

I think that we fail to recognize that we are magnets.  We attract what we put out.  If you’re putting out negative vibes, doubt, fear and projecting lack…that’s exactly what you’re going to get back.  Negative thoughts, actions, attitudes and behaviors never attracts positive results or outcomes.

What do you want?  Is your energy aligned with that?  If not, you’re going to have a hell of a time manifesting what you say you desire.  She could live in all 50 states, all 7 continents and sail all the seas known to man/woman, and still she will not find her “normal”. 

I was seriously surprised that no-one mentioned it.  Were they being nice?  Or are they just as oblivious as she is? 

It’s not only important to know what you want, but also to live in that field of energy through thoughts, actions, attitudes and behaviors. 

Sometimes we don’t know that we are actually the cause of our so perceived “misfortunes”.  

I say that because we are programmed from a young age to believe and behave a certain way.  You are who you are today, because of they way you were programmed/raised.  If you have a poor self-image or fantastic self-esteem, somehow you were programmed to believe just that.  

The first step is to become aware.  When a negative or self limiting thought arises, ask, “where is this coming from?”.  Who taught me this?  How is this serving me?  How will it help or hurt if I continue to believe this way?What is a better outlook or perspective on this situation? Question it all!  

Are you feeling blocked in any way?  Are you not manifesting love, abundance, fulfillment, success in the way you feel you deserve?  

You’re not alone.  I have helped many women find balance, success, peace, love, abundance, happiness, passion and purpose.  I’m here to help you too.  I have gone through many of the same hurdles that my clients have or have experienced.  Which is why I have dedicated my life to helping/healing others from physical pain, mental blocks, past hurts and spiritual disconnect. If you’d like to transform your life starting today, register for my signature 7-Day Empowered You Online Coaching Program. I’d be happy to jump on a 15 minute complimentary call to help you identify your primary block.

With love & gratitude,

Dr. Aixa