Manifesting Your Soulmate


If you have found your soulmate, congrats!  If you haven’t found “the one”, you’re not alone.  There are more single people now than ever before.  Roughly 50% of the US population is single.  This is good news!  Why?  Because there is someone out there searching for you too.

Being single can be a great thing,  However, there is growing evidence showing that single people tend to be more depressed.  Is it because they’re lonely despite the fact that they have thousands of FB friends and Instagram followers? This may be one of the many reasons people feel depressed and lonely and are on the hunt for Mr. or Ms. Right.  After all, we’ve all seen the countless movies that romanticize the idea of love at first sight and finding your perfect mate.  

So how do you go about finding your soulmate?  I would tell you to first go inside.  You must absolutely fall in love with yourself first.  Do not expect anyone to “complete” you.  If you’re looking for that someone to complete you, you will find that you’ll continue to attract the wrong people into your life.  You must first be whole in order to give love to another lovable and loving human being. 

Next, I’d say get absolutely clear on what you want in a partner and in a relationship.  What are you willing or not willing to sacrifice?  Many people give up hobbies and friends they love because of a jealous or possessive mate.  

Once you fall in love with yourself and make yourself complete, get clear on who is your ideal partner and what is your ideal relationship, it is time to manifest it.  

Here’s how:

  1. Get out.  Your soulmate is out there searching too.  They’re not going to find you under your blanket on your couch. 
  2. Visualize the relationship.  What would nights and weekends be like?  Where would you vacation?  Can you see your future selves?  Any kids? 
  3. Be optimistic.  You may kiss a few frogs but that’s part of the process.  Learn the lesson and let any past hurts go.  
  4. Be open.  You will probably find your perfect mate in the least expected place at the most awkward time. 

When you find your special someone, you’ll know it.  It will seem like you’ve crossed paths before.  It won’t always be peaches and cream but there will be mutual respect and admiration, a sense of peace and unconditional love.